3 Steps to Posting a Proper Profile Picture
*person may not be exactly as shown*
I love my father, I really do. But when I saw his recent Facebook profile picture (see right), I had to laugh. This is not what my dad looks like, and, if you look closely enough, you can
see that the angle of his face is not matching the angle of the head he transplanted it on to. Although he is not using this photo to deceive those who view it, many of his friends assumed it was a real picture- perhaps taken a few years ago. He admitted it wasn’t a real by saying “Does anyone really think I would wear a Queen t-shirt?”
While I find this picture amusing, it also reminded me about the importance of being truthful in your online representation. Everyone wants to put their best “face” forward, but gross exaggeration is not promoting who you actually are, and isn’t really doing you any favours.
Here are 3 steps to ensure you are presenting yourself honestly, but in the best possible light.
- Make sure you use a recent picture for your profiles
Maybe 10 years ago you were thinner or better looking. Maybe you had the best haircut of your life, and you want to hold onto that memory. Maybe you paid a lot of money for that 80s-style glamour shot. You don’t look like that anymore. Get over it. Embrace who you are today, and find the most flattering picture you have of yourself. I suggest that the picture be updated every six months or so. Keep those pictures of the younger, hotter you for your desktop. - Use tasteful photos
Most people know this, but using a picture that shows a lot of skin or excessive drinking does not capture you in your best light. You might *think* it does, especially while under the influence, but, and trust me on this one, it doesn’t. Anyone who is impressed by these pictures are not going to help your online reputation. Use a headshot that captures who you are when you’re at your best- sober and smiling. - Match the tone of the picture to the purpose
When making a Twitter account for your business, use a professional-looking picture. When making a profile for Plentyoffish.com, use a picture to attract dates. When setting your Facebook profile picture to share with friends, use a casual, relaxed picture. Know your audience, and accommodate them. Your audience will know who you are and the purpose of your messages based on your visual representation, and will respond appropriately.
In my father’s case, it was a silly tongue-in-cheek post, but people are misrepresenting themselves in profile pictures across the internet, and it needs to stop. Be who you are, whoever you are.
CG
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